What is a packer for trans

What is a Packer for Trans Men?

If you are a female-to-male (FTM) transgender person, you may have heard about packers and packing. So, what exactly is an FTM packer? A packer is a phallic object worn by FTM individuals to create the appearance of a penis in their underwear. People use different objects to fill this role, ranging from socks to realistic penis prosthetics that can be used for packing, playing, and even urinating. Each FTM has unique preferences, so the options available may or may not suit everyone. It's a personal decision.

If you’re experiencing dysphoria or discomfort with your body image, a packer might help. If you’re ready to start packing but have many questions, don't worry! We’ve gathered some tips for first-time packers to help ease the process.

How Do FTM Packers Work?

FTM packers are designed to create the appearance of male genitalia by producing a bulge in the pants. Different types of packers serve different purposes. Soft packers are often used for everyday wear, providing a natural look and feel. Stand-to-pee (STP) packers allow users to urinate while standing, making them functional beyond just appearance. Pack and Play packers, on the other hand, serve a dual purpose—they are used for both packing and penetrative sex. These packers are firmer and can be bent to suit different needs.

Why Would Someone Want to Pack?

Packing is indeed a deeply personal choice, often embraced by trans men and non-binary individuals to create a more masculine appearance, reduce dysphoria, and enhance their overall sense of well-being. Here’s an elaboration on the reasons why someone might choose to pack:

1. Relieving Gender Dysphoria:

• Gender dysphoria can be a persistent feeling of disconnection between one's physical body and their gender identity. Packing helps alleviate this by creating a more traditionally masculine silhouette, which can make trans men feel more physically aligned with their internal sense of self. For many, seeing a bulge in their clothing mirrors the body they envision, offering significant relief from dysphoria.

2. Boosting Confidence and Self-Esteem:

• By creating a more accurate representation of their gender identity, packing can improve self-confidence. When one’s outward appearance matches their identity, it often leads to increased self-assurance in everyday interactions—whether social, professional, or intimate. Feeling "right" in one's body can make a huge difference in navigating social situations with ease and confidence.

3. Providing Comfort and Body Alignment:

• Packing not only offers visual alignment but can also provide a sense of physical comfort. The feeling of having something in the pants that mimics male anatomy can help trans men feel more “complete,” promoting mental and physical comfort. It’s similar to the way some cis men might feel more balanced or “whole” due to the presence of their genitalia.

4. Enhancing Sexual Experiences:

• Some individuals use special packers known as "Pack and Play" prosthetics, designed for both everyday packing and sexual use. These prosthetics can create a sense of authenticity in intimate encounters, enhancing both the wearer’s and their partner’s experience. They can also facilitate penetrative sex, bridging the gap between the user’s physical capabilities and sexual desires.

5. Swimming:

• Swimming while packing can present unique challenges, but many trans men and non-binary individuals find ways to feel comfortable and affirmed even in swimwear. Some specialized packers are designed to be water-friendly, made from materials that can withstand prolonged exposure to water without damage. For some, packing while swimming helps maintain a more consistent sense of body alignment, reducing dysphoria in an otherwise vulnerable situation. 

Packing serves not just as a tool for physical presentation, but as a profound means to affirm one’s gender identity and foster a stronger connection to oneself. It’s part of a broader journey toward body positivity, self-love, and authentic living.

What Are the Different Types of FTM Packers?

There are several types of FTM packers, each designed to serve specific needs:

ERECT SERIES (FTM Pack and Play)

Pack and Play packers, also known as hard packers, are multifunctional devices designed for both packing and penetrative sex. Emisil’s Erect Series packers are ultra-realistic and firm, providing maximum pleasure and confidence. You can choose from different models, such as the ER02 and ER12, which offer varying sizes for those looking for an erect model.

For those interested in slightly downward-pointing packers, models like ER01, ER03, ER11, and ER04 are available. These packers can be customized with hair or without, and some include a plastic rod for additional rigidity. Explore the full erect series HERE.

 

STAND-TO-PEE PACKERS (FTM STP)

STP packers are designed to allow trans men to urinate while standing, which can be a life-changing experience for those who find public restrooms stressful. These devices are hollow inside and shaped to fit comfortably for urination. Emisil’s STP packers are known for their leak-resistant design, ensuring ease and comfort throughout the day. At night, you can add an erection rod to convert the packer for sexual play.

Our STP packers come in various models, including compact versions for those just starting out. Whether you need a functional prosthetic for urination or a combination of packing and play, STP packers offer a natural solution. Find all our STP packers HERE.

Soft Packers

Soft packers are ideal for everyday wear, offering comfort and a realistic appearance. These are great for trans men who are looking for a casual, comfortable option that creates a natural bulge under clothing. While soft packers are versatile for daily use, they are not suitable for urination or sexual activity. Find all our soft packers HERE.

Packer Comparison

Packer Type	Primary Function	Pros	Cons
Soft Packers	Everyday wear, creating a realistic bulge	Comfortable for daily use, often more affordable	Not suitable for urination or sexual activity, limited functionality
STP Packers	Urination while standing, everyday wear	Allows for standing to urinate, functional and discreet	May require practice to use, limited to urination and packing
Pack and Play Packers	Packing and penetrative sex	Multifunctional (packing, play), more realistic	Less comfortable for daily wear, usually more expensive

 

How to Choose a Packer

Choosing the right packer is a personal decision that depends on your preferences and needs. To help you make an informed choice, consider the following factors:

• Functionality: Do you need a packer just for packing, or do you want one that allows you to stand and pee or have penetrative sex?
• Size and weight: Smaller packers are more discreet, while larger ones provide a more noticeable bulge.
• Material: Soft packers are available in materials like fabric, silicone, and elastomer, each offering different textures and durability.
• Color: Look for a packer that matches your skin tone for a more natural look.

How to Wear a Packer

Wearing a packer comfortably and securely is essential for ensuring a positive experience, whether for daily wear, work, or intimate situations. Here are some tips to help you wear a packer effectively:

• Choose the Right Fit: Packers come in various sizes, shapes, and materials. Experiment with different options to find one that feels natural and aligns with your body type.
• Use a Harness or Packing Underwear: Specialized packing harnesses or underwear provide extra support, keeping the packer securely in place. These garments often have built-in pouches or elastic bands that help maintain positioning throughout the day.
• Opt for Adhesives: Some people prefer to use skin-safe adhesives or medical-grade tape to secure the packer directly to their body for a more natural feel and less shifting.
• Layer for Additional Support: If using standard underwear, wear tighter-fitting briefs or boxers over the packer to reduce movement and ensure a better hold.
• Adjust for Comfort: Adjust the packer’s position as needed throughout the day to ensure it feels right and doesn’t cause discomfort or chafing.

You may find more useful information on how to wear a packer here.

What Size Packer Should I Buy?

The size of the packer you choose will depend on your comfort level and what you find aesthetically pleasing. Here’s a guide to help you decide:

• Small packers (under 4 inches): Great for a subtle, less noticeable bulge, perfect for beginners.
• Medium packers (4 to 6 inches): Provide a more noticeable bulge while still being comfortable for everyday use.
• Large packers (over 6 inches): Offer a more prominent appearance, ideal for those seeking a bigger bulge.

Packing Hygiene

Maintaining proper hygiene is crucial for the longevity of your packer and for ensuring your comfort. Here are some tips on how to take care of your packer:

• Soft Packers (Fabric or Foam): These should be washed or replaced daily, as they stay in close contact with your body.
• Elastomer Packers: Clean your elastomer packer with warm water and mild soap. Dust it with cornstarch to prevent stickiness, and avoid boiling it as it can damage the material.
• Silicone Packers: Silicone packers are easy to clean. Wash them with soapy water regularly, and boil them occasionally for thorough disinfection. Store them in a dry place and away from sharp objects to prevent damage.

Here are some helpful tips to improve your understanding of how to wear a packer, along with useful advice to enhance your experience.

• Choose a safe space to practice wearing your packer at home or another private space before heading out in public.
• Be patient with yourself as you experiment with different options to find the right packer.
• Decide if you want a packer that allows for standing to pee (STP) or just packing.
• Choose how to secure your prosthetic, whether it's with adhesive, a harness, or specialized underwear.
• Take care of your prosthetic by washing it daily with soap and water or boiling it if necessary.

Conclusion

Packing can provide a great deal of comfort and confidence for trans men. Whether you choose a soft packer for daily use, an STP packer for standing to pee, or a Pack and Play for multiple functions, it’s all about finding what makes you feel most comfortable and confident. Whatever your choice, wear your packer with pride!

 

FAQ

How do I choose the right type of packer?

Selecting a packer depends on your needs and preferences. There are soft packers for daily wear, Stand-To-Pee (STP) packers for urination, and Pack and Play prosthetics that serve both packing and sexual functions. Consider factors like size, material, and whether you need it for everyday wear, urination, or sexual activity.

How do I wear a packer securely?

To wear a packer securely, use packing underwear, a harness, or adhesives. Specialized packing garments have built-in pouches to keep the packer in place, while adhesives can help it stay firmly attached to the body. Adjust the packer for comfort, and consider layering tighter briefs or boxers over it for additional support.

Can I swim while wearing a packer?

Yes, there are water-friendly packers designed for swimming. These packers are made from materials that can withstand prolonged exposure to water, and packing swimwear options exist for extra security. Swimming while packing can help maintain body alignment and reduce dysphoria, even in vulnerable situations.

 

How can packing improve my confidence?

Packing can improve confidence by aligning your physical presentation with your gender identity, providing a more natural, masculine silhouette. Feeling more “complete” can make social interactions and daily routines feel more comfortable and authentic.

Can I sleep while wearing a packer?

Yes, many people sleep while packing, especially with soft packers. Make sure to wear comfortable, supportive underwear that holds the packer in place to prevent discomfort while sleeping.